(question for men) Would u like it if a woman sent u flowers at work?

I have been sort of seeing someone for a few weeks, but we%26#039;re not sure if we are just friends or more? I sent him (red roses) flowers at work today for his birthday. Was I too forward? (I am a woman, by the way)

(question for men) Would u like it if a woman sent u flowers at work?
I sent flowers to my boyfriend at work two years ago and he really appreciated it! He said no one has ever done that for him before and he was very happy. What I sent him was a very simple vase with three pink roses in it. That was because pink was the color rose he had previously gotten me, and I wanted him to know that I remembered. I got him a rose one other time (way before) that was plain red and I gave it to him at his house, not at work, but he loved that also, showed it off to his family, and they all talked about how sweet I was for weeks.





I think a lot of the answers here are gender stereotypes. If the guy is really into you and loves you than he will take the flowers as what they are, a gesture of love, and he will be happy that you did that for him. It%26#039;s the 21st century and we%26#039;re supposed to be so liberated. Of course, a woman can buy flowers for a man if she wants to express herself that way, and he will know that they are meant to be romantic and are a symbol of how much she cares.
Reply:i think that is really nice it makes a change for a woman to make the first move with romance good on you if he does not appreciate it then sod him you can do better
Reply:I dunno.. Maybe he%26#039;s embarrassed cuz he got flowers.... But it was a nice thought. You should%26#039;ve sent him a case of beer instead.
Reply:After a few weeks, I think that%26#039;s a great way to show that you want to step up the relationship, or at least make sure you two are on the same page.
Reply:That%26#039;s kind of embarrasing!


men aren%26#039;t supposed to get flowers at work, women are supposed to get flowers at work....


Everyone is gonna think he%26#039;s gay...........
Reply:No not at all. If I were in his position I would consider it an act of kindness and thoughtfullness. I%26#039;m sure he loved it or is going to love it.
Reply:yeah....i would never ever send flowers to my hubby at work....it will embarass them
Reply:I would think that is sweet. Maybe he has the same feelings. Just make sure he%26#039;s not the one answering this question.
Reply:To be very honest with you, what ever you have done is ok type - not much appealing





everyone has their own sweet spots. if you want ot please him, send him a fun card. He will smile and then will give you that %26quot;LOOK%26quot; what you are expecting.





Just try it out, I am not expert but I would have loved if some one had done that.
Reply:No but a BJ would be even better.
Reply:Sammy, typically guys don%26#039;t appreciate flowers the way women do.





It%26#039;s not that it would be gay (not that there%26#039;s anything wrong with that) or embarassing, it%26#039;s just that a man doesn%26#039;t associate flowers (receiving anyway) with romance.





Now, if you sent him a home made card/invitation for a candle lit dinner, that would probably send the right message.





I think it was a nice touch though, have any sisters :)
Reply:I think his people at work mite think hes gay getting flowers from someone. it was a sweet thing to do, but men just arent into flowers. If i were him id be a lil surprised and taken back by that.
Reply:NOOOOO!!! Dont waste flowers on a guy. I would feel like a douche bag if i got flowers. We dont give two shits about flowers!





My gf got me flowers one time and i had to do that gay thing where you smell them, but really faking the smelling of the flowers, so you make them think you really care!
Reply:LOL, a little off the norm, but hey, this is 2007.





I would be a bit embarrassed, but would greatly appreciate the gesture.
Reply:it was nice of u but personally i would be embarrassed to get flowers at work.
Reply:it%26#039;s cool... but next time send it with a six pack.. so it%26#039;s not so gay.... but it%26#039;s cool.... i get it sometimes...
Reply:i think that was a very nice gesture on your part.no i wouldnt mind at all.and i dont think he will mind either.it was very nice of you thinking of him that much,to send him flowers,but the next time,send him something else.i think those are for women.



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