Her birthday is tomorrow...?

My fiance left me on the 24th of Jan. She said she is in love with me and still loves me...but has to deal with life on her own for right now. Too much stress etc. She said i smothered her...but only as telling her I love her all the time....always asking if she needed anything. I thought that is what you do when you are in love with someone...you are always there for them. Tomorrow is her birthday..I miss her so much. I have not even spoken to her. I wrote her a letter that stated that I will leave her alone to figure out her life. I want to text her and tell her happy birthday. I also wanted to send her flowers for Valentines day. She and I may not be together anymore, but she will always be my valentine. She once told me if I left her she would fight like hell for me...now that she left me I want to fight like hell for her. I want to put that on a card and send it to her. Is that a good idea? What is your opinion? Especially women.

Her birthday is tomorrow...?
awwww....you sound so sweet. Many girls wish for a guy like you. I think you should send her flowers for her birthday and a card but maybe you shouldn%26#039;t send her anything for valentine%26#039;s day since she left ya......its too much of an approch, but don%26#039;t give up.
Reply:Don%26#039;t let her get away. She sounds very special! I%26#039;d buy her something small. If you get her something expensive, she%26#039;ll still think you%26#039;re smothering her. Good Luck!!!
Reply:That sounds like the sweetest thing to do, and you make perfect sense. I dont understand why she is sending you mixed signals though. You should do what feels right, and let her know how you feel then go from there. But dont go to overboard. A note and flowers sounds perfect! Good Luck!
Reply:Nope, why should you send her a card for her birthday when she dumped you?





When she let you go, she let all these things go too, this is part of you.





If you give her these kind of things, it shows her that it%26#039;s ok for her to dump you %26amp; not have you in her life, yet she still gets the bonus%26#039;s from you.





Basically, the break up is raw, so if she has any inconsideration for you, she won%26#039;t be mad to not recieve a card or present from you on her birthday.





So no don%26#039;t do it.. seriously, your just putting yourself in a vulnerable position and letting her have her cake %26amp; eat it.
Reply:AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!





Just send her flowers and a nice little note and that%26#039;s it dont do anything else.
Reply:Yes, don%26#039;t give up on her!!
Reply:guy? what do you have to lose?just go for it.a little suggestion for you.while she%26#039;s working on her life why not figure yours out?i know its soon but get out there you never know there might be another mis right for you.tough to do when in love but what if things dont work out then thats just more time you%26#039;ve lost finding you path in life.i would send flowers and a b-day card.then you might find out whats going to happen



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