Can I buy a man I just recently met a birthday card?

It is a plain birthday card with a flower design (not roses or anything romantic, just some flowers). All I am going to write is Happy Birthday or something simple like that.





I don%26#039;t know him well enough to even think about buying him an actual gift. However, I am thinking of getting him a birthday card. Will this guy think I like him romantically if I get him a birthday card? Will he just think I am a nice person who wanted to get him a birthday card?





What are your opinions on this please?

Can I buy a man I just recently met a birthday card?
y not?


it just means ur bein nice
Reply:If you just keep your message light and cheery he will take it as a friendly gesture and will think you are kind.
Reply:He might think you like him romantically. If you do, then it all works out fine. If you don%26#039;t like him romantically, then you may have to explane why you got him a birthday card. Either way it is a nice gesture on your part.
Reply:Sure nothing wrong with that


He%26#039;ll know your thinking about him
Reply:Yes, a funny humorous card and you can even get him a gift. Keep it generic, like a great coffee blend, chocolate, nothing personal. Just say have a great B-day, leave it at that.
Reply:yes,you can.you do everything you think
Reply:He will think your a nice person. Unless there has been any other interaction on yours or his part... like flirting, staring, touching, ect. Then it might be a thought in the back of his mind.
Reply:Some time last year, I started going to a new coffee kiosk every now and again on my way to work (the people at the old one were ridiculously unsanitary...as in eew).





Well, the first time I went to the new stand, the guy at the window was the owner...Isaiah! He didn%26#039;t have other customers at the moment and so we rambled on...I took a good friend there once, and three months later I was going to pick up coffee for said friend, and Isaiah remembered what it was!





His 30th birthday came up, and so I bought him a card with some Far Side comic about coffee and left it there for him...up until he sold the place, he had it hanging on the wall! He KNEW it wasn%26#039;t anything romantic, just some good wishes for his birthday!





Absolutely nothing wrong with spreading some kindness around. We all need it more than we think.
Reply:It would be very thoughtful. Perhaps a more manly card though for a guy. Just sign it %26quot;your friend%26quot; instead of %26quot;love%26quot; and he will get the message.
Reply:I think that it%26#039;s a nice idea. I would go for it.


What he would think..that depends on your future behaviour towards him..
Reply:buy him a funny one that way it can%26#039;t be interpreted as romantic



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